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Mend a quarrel.
Seek out a forgotten friend.
Dismiss suspicion and replace it with trust.
Write a love letter.
Share some treasure.
Give a soft answer.
Encourage youth.
Manifest your loyalty in word and deed.
Keep a promise.
Find the time.
Forego a grudge.
Forgive an enemy.
Listen.
Apologize if you are wrong.
Try to understand.
Avoid envy.
Examine your demands on others.
Think of your neighbor first.
Be appreciative.
Be kind and gentle.
Laugh a little...
Laugh a little more.
Be deserving of the confidence of others.
Extend your hand to a stranger...and the warmth of your hand to a child.
Find beauty in all that surrounds you.
Speak your love...
Speak it again...
Speak it still once again...
In the not too distant past
-I remember well-
Grandmas tended to their knitting,
and their cookies were just swell.
They were always at the ready,
when you needed some advice.
And their sewing (I can tell you)
Was available - and nice.
Well, Grandma's not deserted you.
She dearly loves you still.
You just won't find her cooking,
but she's right here at the till.
She thinks about you daily -
You haven't been forsook.
Your photos are quite handy,
In her Pentium notebook.
She scans your art work now though,
And combines it with cool sounds,
To make electronic greetings.
And prints pictures by the pounds.
She's right there when you need her,
You really aren't alone.
She's out now with her "puter" pals,
But she took her new cell phone.
You can also leave a message
On her answering machine;
Or page her at the fun meet.
She's been there since nine fifteen.
Yes, the world's a very different place,
There is no doubt of that.
So "E" her from her web page,
Or join her in a chat.
She's joined the electronic age,
And it really seems to suit her.
So don't expect the same old gal,
Cause Grandma's gone "Computer".
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One of my past homes had a lovely hidden garden. Although I lived in the city during that
time, the garden had a small, private get-a-way spot that no one would guess was there. My garden was surrounded by bushes
that keep it hidden inside the fence. There I could admire nature's beauty in its unspoiled splender. It always seemed to
inspire a story. I'm including one I did a few years ago when some simple summer sounds evoked a story about my childhood.
The same thing happened not long ago as I was sitting at my computer with the window open.
A breeze came in carrying a sweet spring fragrance and I wrote another story about one Saturday morning long ago. If you'd like to read that one too, you can find it by going back to " HOME" and selecting
the link, "More Stories".
There are a few new sounds now, In 1997, such as the recorded track of a hurdy-gurdy coming
from an ice cream truck tempting children up one street and down another, or the BOOM, BOOM, BOOM of the bass beat blasting
from a car stereo, but the lazy airplane, the lawnmower a few houses down the block and birds chirping in the bushes take
me back to my childhood summers of the 1940's and '50's under the massive willow tree in our front yard. I'd lie on our green, earthy-smelling lawn. My dad watered often in the summer months, and
the earth was always a little damp under the thick mossy grass. Tiny, light blue flowers with minuscule golden stamens were
blooming all over the lawn. Mother had let the ground-cover spread throughout the lawn because it looked so pretty. I'd lie
on the shady grass under the towering willow tree for hours, looking up at the sky. I remember it being a clearer, more vivid
blue then. I'd look for pictures in the fluffy white clouds floating across the deep blue canvas overhead. Sheep were always
up there to be spotted fairly easily, but at times I'd see faces--Abe Lincoln, George Washington or maybe Dagwood or Blondie
from the Sunday funny papers. Many times Goofy or Pluto or Mickey Mouse would appear along with Donald Duck or Felix the cat.
Some days my mother would take a few minutes out from her housework and join me on the lawn, and we'd look for pictures together.
She was so good that she could find whole scenes and faces of family members! After we watched the clouds for awhile we'd
roll on our stomachs and look for four leaf clover in the grass. She was good at that too, and usually found at least one.
Sometimes I'd squint my eyes and see what I was convinced were germs that only I could spot
because of my unusually sharp vision. I was certain I could pick out round staphylococcus, spirals of spirilla, wavy streptococci
and little pairs of bacilli floating in the sky above me! I had memorized the types and shapes from the old Dr. Chase medical
book that I loved to look at. It wasn't until years later that I found out my 'germs' were really just floaters in my eyes,
and everyone had them! Some days, double-winged airplanes flew overhead and I'd watch as they did tricks in the
sky. They'd roll over and over, then fly straight up and turn over backwards, turning off their engines as they fell quickly
towards the ground, starting up again just as I was sure they wouldn't have time to come out of their nose- dive. They'd soar
upward again and repeat their stunts. Occasionally, a configuration of military bombers roared overhead. These noisy planes
scared me. I thought they might drop bombs like I'd seen in the newsreels at the movies. Many times when I was lying there watching the activity in the sky and listening to the
familiar summer sounds around me, I'd hear a siren off in the distance. The fire department was about a mile away and when
a fire call came, the warning siren blew. Two or three minutes later the fire trucks would take off, and I could hear them
coming up the hill closer and closer, their sirens getting louder with each block. I was scared to death of the fire trucks
and sirens, so I'd run in the house when I heard them coming. My mother told me a trick to do so I wouldn't be so afraid.
She said to put my fingers in my ears and sing loudly, 'The firemen are going to help someone, the firemen are going to help
someone...' over and over. I'd try this, but somehow I'd always be able to hear the trucks screaming around the corner a block
up the road. Fortunately, most of the time they'd turn there, and seldom came past our house. On warm, sunny, summer days, my friend Luana, who lived across the street, and I would ride
our bicycles to the swimming pool. It was quite a long hot ride, but mostly downhill, going. As we neared the pool, the loud
voices of noisy, splashing swimmers greeted us and we could hardly wait to hit the water ourselves. We'd have our suits on
under our clothes so we could jump out of our things in the dressing room, cram them into the baskets, fasten the safety pin
with our basket number to our swimming suits and run down the path to the pool. The pool was always very crowded, and we'd
start looking for our friends right away, but all the girls looked alike in the water with their white swimming caps and solid-colored
one piece suits, so sometimes it took awhile to find everyone. After we all found each other we'd gather in one corner of
the pool and swim and play around for most of the afternoon. When it was time for Luana and I to get out, we'd dress quickly
and ride to the drugstore a couple of blocks away to get ice cream or a soda before we started home. We dreaded the trip back
because it was mostly all uphill, and it was the hottest part of the day. During the hot days of summer, Mother would usually plan for us to eat dinner outdoors.
We had a wonderful large patio under a second huge willow tree in the back yard. The area was made of flagstone and it included
a massive stone fireplace and cooking area. There was a long, wooden picnic table with four benches, a round metal table with
matching chairs and several large wooden lawn chairs with high backs and very wide arms to hold dinner plates and glasses,
and the furniture was arranged on the patio in a very picturesque setting. My dad gave all the patio furniture a new coat
of paint each year, and each year my mother would pick a different color. I remember years of light green, dark green, white
or brown furniture. The patio was surrounded by flower beds with tall plantings and shrubs and little stone paths leading
in, making the area a private, outdoor living room. Sometimes my parents would entertain the camellia club, and the yard would
be overflowing with people. It was especially fun after dark with a crackling fire in the fireplace and the sounds of laughter
and voices floating through the air, mixed with an occasional hoot, croak or chirp from the night life hidden in the bushes
or around the pond. My grandmother lived next door and she also had a wonderful outdoor living area and fireplace.
Sometimes the picnics would be over there with family or groups of her friends. There were never any children for me to play
with, but I enjoyed hiding in the shadows watching the grown-up activities around me. The fourth of July was always an exceptionally exciting day for me. I could hardly wait
until it was dark enough for my dad to begin his wonderful fireworks display. Each year there were always a group of friends
and relatives gathered in our back field to watch the spectacular show. All kinds of fireworks were legal then, and we had
every kind of Roman candle, sky rocket, firecracker and sparkler that were available. Most of the things were shot high into
the sky on a wooden trough-like launcher that my dad had made years earlier. He was the only one allowed near the fireworks,
and there was always a running hose near the launcher. I learned many lessons about safety from him at an early age. I remember
the fireworks lasting far into the night each fourth of July. My dad must have bought a huge amount of fireworks each year,
he liked them as much as I did! Now, whenever I hear the 'WHOOSH' of fireworks being launched high into the sky, I think of
those exciting bright nights out in the field behind our greenhouse. The sounds of summer days and nights haven't changed. I'm just in new surroundings now,
and there are a few new sounds of the times that have been added, sometimes drowning out the good old ones unless you listen
and pay close attention. Then, every so often, an old familiar sound can be heard, and when that happens, it never fails to
bring back the memories of the summers of my childhood.
She told me this would happen, but I really didn’t believe it. Physically, the family
resemblance was always strong. My grandmother, aunts, uncles and cousins have all been told this over and over, from friends
and strangers alike, all our lives. Now that our mothers and fathers are gone, we cousins tell each other the same thing each
time we meet. There’s no mistaking we are all related. Looking back, I guess I knew I’d resemble her as I grew older; the part I didn’t
expect to happen was how much I THINK like her! I always prided myself on being different in my thinking than my mother. I
thought my views were a little more modern and tolerant; although I must give her credit, she was quite liberal for someone
of her generation. Now I see there’s a new part of me beginning to emerge, and I think I appreciate my mother’s
words more now that they are coming out of my own mouth! I began noticing this about the time I turned fifty--I became a grandmother for the first
time that year too. I’d hear words coming from my mouth that sounded just like hers. I wasn’t consciously thinking
of saying them, they just came naturally, surprising me, too! The thoughts were even more amazing than the words. When I was a girl, I remember my mother talking about something, and I’d think: She
doesn’t know what she’s talking about. It’s not that way at all. I’m never going to be that old-fashioned!
Guess what, I’m saying the same things now! I’m sure they aren’t old-fashioned, though. My children and
grandchildren haven’t said anything--yet! Some years it's been But she's always near to me. Lately, each time I pass a mirror It is HER face I see. She always said we looked alike-- Especially our eyes. I'd tell her smartly, "No we don't!" But she was very wise. Now there's HER wrinkles around MY eyes And my hair is silvery gray My hands, my cheeks, my chin--oh my! I'm becoming her more each day! Now this is not necessarily bad-- Being older is just fine, you see-- Because as I grow older I also grow wiser, My mother, I'm PROUD to be. ©Doreen Bradley Satter 1999-2008
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